The Strange Change Rage

Some friends are permanent, some friends are temporary, some are touch and go while some are purposeful, some are not so serious and most others are clueless as to where they stand! Whatever might be their status, there seems to be a particular drift of locations which tends to eat upon their relationship! As people move to new institutions or new workplaces, the connectivity among the friends with whom we had energized our time and fueled our memories, seem to wither away! They begin to act like a brood of chicks that tether within their barn totally focussed on twitching for their worm with secondary conscience that their flock is just around them!  With a change in surroundings and accumulation of new friends, the importance of the old pals unintentionally reduces!

In general, people tend to maintain their strong bonds with the ones who have always been close to their hearts. The real fiasco uproots when the best buddies seemingly accuse themselves to have changed a lot and claim the prioritization of the new people in their lives! Possessiveness pangs up from its roots and devastates into a huge sombre tree with increasing branches of quarrels and a mutual accusation springs up!

 The like poles tend to repel when placed in a magnetic field! Alas, an atrocious field which comprises of separation, inexplicable loneliness and the exasperation of missing themselves! Those who cross this acid test, understand, empathize and keep the trust in their friends are the ones who finally end up soldering their dreams and splicing up their relationship stronger than one can imagine! One has to realize that it is the innumerable amount of love and affection for the friend that makes them struggle to keep their relation steady and strong! These are the ones who can proudly call themselves as besties! Because after all, ‘best friends’ is not a proclamation, it is an exclamation of a testimony and a cheerful acclamation of the harmony!